Social media is the modern brag book for parents. The phenomenon of “sharenting” has created a culture of oversharing with unintended consequences. How? Within those posts, parents may be listing dangerous hashtags that can put their children and family in risky situations.
How Real Is the Danger?
It’s not happening to every child or family, but it has happened and the risk is very real.
Dr. Stacey Steinberg, University of Florida law professor and digital parenting expert, wrote about one incident in a paper entitled Sharenting: Children’s Privacy in the Age of Social Media. She mentions a mommy blogger who posted photos of her twin toddlers potty training. The photos were downloaded by strangers, shared on websites around the world and made into memes.
While the memes seemed cute at first, the mother came to regret her actions. People said whatever they wanted, and there were likely creepy people viewing them as well. Once content is out on the web, there’s no way to delete those photos. And while not everyone has bad intentions, there are pedophiles, predators, and stalkers out there. So, it’s important to protect yourself.
Find out the dangerous hashtags you may be using, other unintended identifiers you’re leaving behind, and how you can share family joys without putting anyone at risk.
Who’s Seeing Your Photos?
A recent report by the UK Children’s Commissioner forecasts that by 2030 sharenting will be the cause of two-thirds of all identify fraud, costing victims millions to remedy. It’s easy to see how, considering these stats from the same report:
- On average, by the age of 13, parents have posted 1,300 photos and videos of their child to social media.
- On average, children post to social media 26 times per day – a total of nearly 70,000 posts by age 18.
Likewise, the Child Rescue Coalition says that:
- 90% of children have a social media presence before their 2nd birthday, but…
- 89% of parents haven’t checked their child’s privacy settings within the last year.
This can leave a young person’s Instagram, Facebook, and other social sites open to predators—which is especially scary since 85% of child predators go on to abuse children in real life.
While many consider Facebook harmless, they often overlook another fact stated in the UK report — Facebook users barely know one in five of their “Facebook friends.” This leaves the door open for veritable strangers to use your child’s information for the purpose of identity theft or worse.
How Hashtags Work
(If you know this stuff, feel free to click to the next page to get to the dangerous hashtags parents need to know.)
Hashtags are clickable links used on social media messages and photos so that others can find similar posts on that topic. For example, fitness enthusiasts often use #beastmode when they succeed at a physically challenging act, or when someone in the LGBTQ community wants other like-minded people to find their post they may use #LGBTQ or #gay.
Proper use of hashtags can lead to increased engagement on posts, help build a brand, and bring more people to your post or business. At Parentology, we use #parentology on our posts to help build our brand visibility.
However, that hashtag can also be used against someone. In LGBTQ example, if a person wants to “troll” a queer person, they may click on the #LGBTQ hashtag to find others they want to harass. There are also predators who can use hashtags to stalk photos of babies and young children.
Dangerous Hashtags Parent Need to Know
The Child Rescue Coalition lists a hundred hashtags that predators use. While many seem innocent to most adults, they could attract the wrong type of audience to your post. We’ve listed the most notable here, in alphabetical order. We created these slides so they were easy to review, but we also include a link to the CRC’s webpage at the end, so you can download the PDF document there.
Another danger parents don’t think about? Geo-targeting…
Family Risks of Geolocation
Taking a break from hashtags at the moment (but we have more in this article for you), here’s a related concern. Have you considered how social media geolocation features can also put your entire household at risk?
Did you know that posting vacation photos can increase your risk of robbery? While it may be fun to show everyone the great time you’re having, it lets people know your house is sitting empty — or at least isn’t as occupied as it normally would be. So it may be wise to save posting those images until you’re back home.
The other option? Make your Instagram or other social media account private, and only share information with friends and family. This is still a risk — you don’t know if those people are innocently sharing your photos with someone else — but it does reduce your chances of that information falling into the wrong hands. We have more tips on how to protect yourself and your family later in this story.
Now, here are more dangerous hashtags…