Online dating is the most popular way people meet these days. Whether you’re looking for a Zoom date or an in-persob connection, you should know that there are still risks. This brings us to HighSpeedInternet’s report on the safest and most dangerous states for online dating in 2021.
Why the worry? For younger people, there are a number of dating/hookup apps that can land kids in dangerous territory. Even certain chat apps can bring kids in close contact with strangers, porn, and sex workers.
But don’t count out adults. The FBI has long warned that dating apps can attract catfishers, scammers looking to bilk people out of their money by starting fake “relationships”. Health experts have also blame online dating apps for a resurgence of STDs due to their ease and anonymity. As more people look for love online, your geography may determine your safety.
Online Dating Is Trending in 2021
The pandemic has brought with it intense physical and emotional isolation. Now more than ever, people are looking to connect with each other.
“People are relying more on dating and video apps to spend time with their loved ones,” said Samantha Moss, editor and content ambassador at Romantific. “Though it may be awkward or lonely, they still find different ways to make spending their time talking virtually to be a fun and memorable one. Playing games, watching movies or eating meals together while on the phone are the trends happening in the online dating world.”
Most Dangerous? Alaska
According to the report, Alaska ranks as the most dangerous state for online dating—a position it’s now held for four years in a row. The ‘Land of the Midnight Sun’ has one of the highest rates of syphilis in one of the country’s smallest populations. Alaskans are also especially vulnerable to online fraud, including “romance scams” in which victims are targeted on dating apps.
Likewise, the West Coast is more dangerous than the East. The Southwestern states of Nevada, Colorado, and New Mexico made the list of the top ten most dangerous states. The safest state for online dating is Maine, followed by West Virginia and Vermont.
Top 10 Safest States for Online Dating
- New Hampshire
- North Dakota
- South Dakota
- West Virginia
Top 10 Most Dangerous States for Online Dating
- New Mexico
To come up with their list, HighSpeedInternet’s team of researchers ranked states based on FBI statistics about cybercrime victims and total funds lost to digital fraudsters. They also analyzed data about STD cases in each state from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. States with the highest rates of cybercrime and STD cases were ranked worse than those with the lowest.
Zoom Dates Can Keep You Safe
Dating apps have provided the perfect segue to finding love in the time of COVID.
“Since restaurants, bars, and clubs are closed, it is more difficult to meet people to mingle and of course impossible to go out on regular dates,” said Peter Jordan, Editor of Help With Online Dating. “Online dating apps are one of the few avenues left for people to meet.”
During this time, Zoom, Skype, Google Chat and other third-party providers (where you don’t give out your actual phone number) are the new normal — even with dating. In fact, there are a number of benefits to dating via video call. Rather than jumping into an expensive evening out, potential couples are now relying on the art of conversation, and learning more about each other in the process. These conversations help people determine whether or not the person they’re chatting with is worth an in-person conversation.
Ironically, interacting through screens can actually help you get to know potential suitors on a deeper level, and in pajama pants. Just be sure to swipe left if your suitor is from Anchorage.